Cave Family

This information concerns ten generations of the Cave family.
1700-2000

 • Individuals are listed chronologically, and those in red show my line of descent.
 • Connections of collateral lines to main lines are indicated by linked names.
 • Generations within a family are separated by a series of asterisks.
 • Unknown or unsubstantiated data are marked with blanks or with question marks.
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   Thomas Sr

born: (about 1720-30) in VA or MD?
married: Jane _?_ ( ) in VA or MD?
children: Thomas Jr,
Samuel, Sarah [Rollings], Jane [McFarland]
died: (by April, 1787) in Stafford County, VA?
buried:
note: Thomas Cave, with Thomas Cave listed as tithable, appears on the 1787 tax rolls of Stafford County, VA. In 1788, Jane Cave, with Thomas Cave listed as tithable, and in 1789, with Samuel Cave listed as tithable, appears on the tax rolls of Fauquier County, VA. She is listed separately from Thomas Cave and Samuel Cave and for the last time in 1791. His
will was dated December 26, 1786, and recorded April 10, 1787, in Prince George's County, MD. It is possible that Thomas Cave Sr had other children: a daughter named Sarah (who married Leonard Eddis [sic] on (August 24, 1780) and a daughter named Elizabeth (who married Henry Lee on December 15, 1781), but they are not proven. Could Leonard Eddis actually be Leonard Edelen?

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   Thomas Jr
(children of Thomas Cave Sr and Jane _?_)

born: (about 1760) in MD
married: (a) Mary Brightwell (April 15, 1782) in Prince George's County, MD
               (b) Elizabeth Peirce (November 18, 1786) in Prince George's County, MD
children: (a) Rhoda and John
               (b) Sarah and Samuel
died: (about September, 1797) in Fauquier County, VA?
buried:
note: His
will was dated July 26, 1797, and recorded September 25, 1797, in Fauquier County, VA. Thomas Cave and Thomas Cave Jr both signed an oath of fidelity in 1778, so Thomas Cave Jr must have been 18 years of age or older. He appears on the 1790 tax list of Fauquier County, VA, as does his mother Jane and his brother Samuel.

   Elizabeth
[not proven]

born: (about 1763) in MD
married: Henry Lee (December 15, 1781) in Prince George's County, MD
children: James Edward, Samuel, Rebecca, Frank, John, Seaborn, William. There might have been a stepson named Henry Lee from her husband's first marriage.
died: (1796-1800) in York County, SC?
buried:
note: CAVEAT: It is not proven that Elizabeth Cave is the daughter of Thomas Cave Sr. She could just as easily be the daughter of his contemporary named Samuel Cave. She is not named in the will of either man because she predeceased both of them. By the time of the 1800 census, Henry Lee was in York County, SC (previously part of Mecklenburg County, NC), without a wife. Henry Lee served during the American Revolution with George Washington's army in Prince George's County, MD, where he was mustered out. He was in VA near the District of Columbia in 1772. He taught school in MD.

   Sarah

born: (about 1770) in MD
married: John Adam Rollings (April 10, 1787) in Prince George's County, MD
children:
died: (1837) in Warren County, VA
buried:
note: The
will of Sarah Rollings, dated February 24, 1837, and recorded April 27, 1837, in Warren County, VA, left half of her estate to her sister Jane McFarland; the other half went to her Cave relatives: John, Samuel, and Sarah Cave. (The will of her husband, John Adam Rollings, dated April 5, 1815, and recorded December 9, 1816, in Shenandoah County, VA, listed his wife Sarah as executrix.)

   Samuel

born: (about 1773) in MD
married: Elizabeth Lowry (June 14, 1793) in Fauquier County, VA
children: John,
James, Nancy, Lowry
died: (about 1806) in Fauquier County, VA
buried:
note: Samuel died intestate, but his
estate was inventoried in 1807 and divided in 1820. Elizabeth married John Raley (August 11, 1806) in Fauquier County, VA. He appears on the 1799 tax list of Fauquier County, VA, without his mother Jane or his brother Thomas.

   Jane

born: (about 1776) in MD
married: James McFarland (January 18, 1794) in Fauquier County, VA
children: Sarah W. [Patterson]
died: (1850) in Rockbridge County, VA
buried:
note: The
will of Jane McFarland, dated December 27, 1849, and recorded August 5, 1850, in Rockbridge County, VA, listed her grandson, John M. Patterson, as heir and executor. (The will of her husband, James McFarland, dated September 21, 1848, and recorded February 5, 1849, in Rockbridge County, VA, listed his grandsons as being John, Alexander, Harvey, and Charles Patterson. They were the children of James Patterson and his daughter Sarah W. McFarland.)

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   Rhoda
    (Rhody)
(children of Thomas Cave Jr and Mary Brightwell / Elizabeth Peirce)

born: (about 1784) in Prince George's County, MD
married: Archibald Watkins (January 11, 1811) in Shenandoah County, VA
children: Jane Watkins [Manuel]
died: (after 1860) in Warren County, VA
buried:
note: A slave of Turner Dixon's estate named Daniel was hanged for the rape of Rhoda in 1793 when she was less than 10 years old. Her marriage record to Archibald Watkins shows her brother John Cave as the bondsman. A deed of gift in Prince George's County, MD, from Richard Brightwell to his granddaughter Rhoda Cave is dated May 4, 1785.

   John born: (about 1786) in MD
married: ( ) in
children: four children are listed on the 1820 census roll of Shanandoah County, VA: a male less than 10, a male 16-26, and two females less than 10.
died: ( ) in
buried:
note: He is listed on the 1820 census roll of Shenandoah County, VA, as being less than 45 years old with a wife who is between 26-45.
   Sarah born: (about 1788) in VA or MD
married: ( ) in
children: two children are listed on the 1830 census of Shenandoah County, VA: a female less than 5 and a female 5-10. On the 1820 census, a male less than 10 is listed.
died: ( ) in
buried:
note: She is listed on the 1850 census roll of Warren County, VA, as being 70 years old and a pauper.
   Samuel born: (about 1790) in MD
married: Phebe Vaught (June 21, 1816) in Shenandoah County, VA
children: Mary [Henry], Emily [Gordon], Thomas, Elizabeth, Nimrod, Elijah, Rachel
died: (June 1859) in Warren County, VA
buried:
note: He is listed on the 1850 census roll in Warren County, VA, as being 60 years old. His wife Phebe Vaught is deceased. His daughter Rachel is listed as an idiot and a pauper in the South River poor house near Front Royal. She was raped and gave birth to a mulatto child named Amanda in 1856.
   John
(children of Samuel Cave and Elizabeth Lowry)

born: (about 1794) in Fauquier County, VA
married: Fanny _?_ ( ) in
children:
died: ( ) in
buried:

   James born: (May 11, 1796) in Fauquier County, VA
married: (a) Margaret Carter (March 26, 1821) in Fauquier County, VA
               (b) Rebecca Garrett Gardner (January 11, 1838) in Dallas County, AL
               (c) Frances E. Sears (November 30, 1856) in DeKalb County, AL
children: (a) Sarah Ellen and Elizabeth Jane
                (b) Rebecca Frances, Anna Amelia, Margaret Mae, Zachariah T., Georgiana C.
                (c)
James McClellen
died: (September 29, 1863) in Corinth, MS; shot by a Union soldier
buried: Forest Hill Cemetery (previously Tuthill Cemetery then Bunch Street Cemetery) in Corinth, MS
note: The 1830 census of Stafford County, VA, indicates 3 children who are unknown: a male less than 5, a female between 5-10, and a male between 10-15.
   Nancy
    (Ann)
born: (about 1798) in Fauquier County, VA
married: Richard Truman Smallwood (March 11, 1823) in Fauquier County, VA
children: Catherine Elizabeth [Heflin], (unknown male), Elizabeth, Ann M. [Lenox], Henrietta, John R., Mary V.
died: (about 1846) in Fauquier County, VA
buried:
note: Nancy left land to her daughter, Catherine Elizabeth Smallwood Heflin, from Samuel Cave's estate. A deed dated August 1, 1846, indicates that "Ann" is deceased. Her husband then married Sarah Ellen Boswell and had four more children.
   Lowry born: (about 1800) in Fauquier County, VA
married: Sarah Tippet (August 31, 1819) in Fauquier County, VA
children: none
died: (about 1822) in Fauquier County, VA
buried:
note: After Lowry's death, Sarah married Moses Samuel, Jr (November 14, 1822) in Fauquier County, VA.

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   Sarah Ellen
    (Sallie)
(children of James Cave and Margaret Carter)

born: (January 4, 1834) in Fredericksburg, Spotsylvania County, VA
married: Dr. Andrew W. Carter (1849) in Lebanon, Wilson County, TN
children: none
died: (April 11, 1921) in Corinth, Alcorn County, MS
buried: City Cemetery, Corinth, Alcorn County, MS

   Elizabeth Jane
    (Jane)
born: (April 11, 1836) in Fredericksburg, Spotsylvania County, VA
married: Elexis Henry Bradley (January 5, 1853) in
children: Sarah Margaret (Sally) [Pollock], Andrew Warren (Andy), Willie John, Button Angeles, Fannie Lee [Scott], James (Jimmy) Cave, George Henry, Arthur Jane Virginia [Haile], Mary Ellen [Clausel], Thomas Joseph
died: (February 9, 1881) in Corinth, Alcorn County, MS
buried: City Cemetery, Corinth, Alcorn County, MS
   Rebecca Frances
    (Fann)
(children of James Cave and Rebecca Garrett Gardner)

born: (about 1839) in AL
married: Alfred P. Lowry (February 24, 1858) in DeKalb County, AL
children:
died: (by 1863) in
buried:
note: A
letter by Andrew D. Lowrey dated June 18, 1863, reports that Alford [sic] Lowry and his wife are both dead.

   Anna Amelia
    (Annie)
born: (about 1841) in AL
married: Samuel Davis Callaway (December 19, 1866) in Clark County, AR
children: James Wiley, John, Emily
died: ( ) in
buried:
   Margaret Mae
    (Maggie)
born: (September, 1847) in AL
married: (a) Kinchen D. Lewter (about 1862) in MS?
               (b) George W. Jones (November 21, 1884) in Clark County, AR
               (c) John B. Avery (August 19, 1888) in Clark County, AR
children: (a) Eva Lillian [Owens], Fannie, William, Jessie T. [Vaden]
               (b) none
               (c) none
died: (April 24, 1904) in Hebron, Clark County, AR
buried: Davis Cemetery (section 3, tws 10 S, row 18 W), Vaden community southeast of Gurdon, Clark County, AR
note: Margaret divorced George W. Jones (August 11, 1888) in Clark County, AR. Her tombstone gives date of birth as March 10, 1849; census record of 1850 suggests 1843, and that of 1900 gives September, 1847... go figure!
   Zachariah T.
    (Zach)
born: (about 1848) in Lebanon, DeKalb County, AL
married: ( ) in
children:
died: ( )
buried:
note: He was a petit juror of the circuit court during the July term, 1871, in Alcorn County, MS.
   Georgiana C.
    (Georgia)
born: (March 30, 1851) in Lebanon, DeKalb County, AL
married: Thomas Frank T. Jobe (July 28, 1869) in Corinth, Tishomingo County, MS
children: Sallie A., Rebecca Jeunie, Frank, and Joseph Carter
died: (February 19, 1883) in Alcorn County, MS
buried: Salem Church Cemetery in Alcorn County, MS
note: Her husband was a minister.
   James McClellen
(child of James Cave and Frances E. Sears)

born: (November 15, 1858) in Lebanon, DeKalb County, AL
married: Sarah Missouri (Zula) Wiley (July 25, 1877) in Tyler, Smith County, TX
children: Frances Minnie Lee, Maggie Mae Dee, James Gaston, James Langston, Gladys, Jewel, Birdie, Artie Mishie
died: (June 12, 1930) in Fort Worth, Tarrant County, TX
buried: Mount Olivet cemetery, Fort Worth, Tarrant County, TX

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   Frances Minnie Lee
(children of James McClellen Cave and Sarah Missouri Wiley)

born: (February 8, 1879) in Starville, Smith County, TX
married: Robert Edward Hamby (November 12, 1897) in Antlers, Pushmataha County, Oklahoma
children: Clady, James Floyd, Secil, Sula [Clark], Tinnie Lee (=Margaret?) [Becker] [Hiett], Robert Lee
died: (July 11, 1913) in Kosoma, Pushmataha County, OK
buried: Kosoma, Pushmataha County, OK

   Maggie May Dee born: (October 14, 1880) in Starville, Smith County, TX
married: no
children: none
died: (July 14, 1883)
buried:
James Gaston born: (December 9, 1883) in Aquilla, Smith County, TX
married: (a) Maude Jones (February, 1907) in Paris, Lamar County, TX
               (b)
Lula Hannah DeGraffenried (June 8, 1913) in Antlers, Pushmataha County, OK
children: (a) ?
               (b) James Theodore, James Howard,
Virginia Gaston, Patty Lou, Lois Catherine, James Bobbie
died: (April 24, 1954) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
buried: San Jose Burial Park (Block 9, Section 1, lot 248, Grave 1, NW 1/4) San Antonio, TX
   James Langston
         (Dude)
born: (December 23, 1885) in Mt. Pleasant, Titus County, TX
married: Maude Lenorah Hamby Barns (September 7, 1904) in Paris, Lamar County, TX
children: Gladys Irene (Jimmie) [Mickle] and stepdaughter Anita Fern Barns [Bergman] by Maude's 1st husband, Maynard Earl Barns
died: (March 26, 1971) in West Fork, Washington County, AR
buried: West Fork, Washington County, AR
   Gladys born: (September 10, 1892) in Moyers, Pushmataha County, OK
married: John Denson Beauchamp (May, 1906) in
children: Jessee Denson (Jess), Florence Leone [Capps], Bernice Carter, James Cave (JC), Fred, Gladys Louise [Coopenbarger], Mildred Josephine (Jo) [Cowin], Donald Walker (Don)
died: (April 28, 1955) in
buried:
   Jewel born: (February 16, 1894) in Moyers, Pushmataha County, OK
married: no
children: none
died: (April 4, 1895)
buried:
   Birdie born: (February 2, 1896) in Moyers, Pushmataha County, OK
married: no
children: none
died: (July 14, 1898)
buried:
   Artie Mishie
      (Mishie)
born: (June 30, 1898) in Moyers, Pushmataha County, OK
married: Charles Herbert Law (February 20, 1916) in Antlers, Pushmataha County, OK
children: John Vaughn, Louis Lester, James Russell
died: (June 25, 1982) in Fort Worth, Tarrant County, TX
buried: Fort Worth, Tarrant County, TX
note: She was named for the Kiamichi mountains in southeast Oklahoma according to a note from Jennifer Law Young.

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   James Theodore
       (Jim / JT)
(children of James Gaston Cave and Lula Hannah DeGraffenried)

born: (March 3, 1913) in Antlers, Pushmataha County, OK
married: Marian Agnes Frasch Berry (after 1930)
children: none except for stepson James Theodore (Jimmy) Berry (by Marion's first husband)
died: (July 22, 1984) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
buried: Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery, San Antonio, Bexar County, TX

   James Howard
    (Howard)
born: (July 12, 1918) in Antlers, Pushmataha County, OK
married: Clara Belle Collins (August 17, 1939) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
children: Howard Lee and Michael James
died: (April 3, 2007) in Trinity, Trinity County, TX
buried: Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery, San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
   Virginia Gaston
    (Ginny)
born: (October 22, 1921) in Seymour, Baylor County, TX
married:
Howard Lee Robison (June 27,1938) in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
children:
Roger Lee
died:
buried:
   Patty Lou
    (Patty)
born: (May 2, 1924) in El Dorado, Union County, AR
married: Clarence [Clifton] Kuykendall (June 14, 1941) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
children: James Preston, Gary Wayne, Mark Clifton
died:
buried:
   Lois Catherine
    (Lois)
born: (May 6, 1926) in Seymour, Baylor County, TX
married: (a) Paul Robert Wunsch (June 18, 1943) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
               (b) William (Bill) Ellis (March 11, 1961) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
               (c) Gordon Howard (Johnny) Johns (April 15, 1975) in Taos, Taos County, NM
               (d) Gordon Howard (Johnny) Johns; in Minnesota (?)(She divorced and re-married the same man.)
children: (a) Larry Paul and Kathy Paulette
               (b) none
               (c) none
               (d) none
died: (May 4, 2008) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
buried: Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery, San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
   James Bobbie
    (Bobby)
born: (September 10, 1930) in Fort Worth, Tarrant County, TX
married: Betty Jean Duffau (April 15, 1952) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
children: Robert Lee, Randall Wayne, Melanie Gayle
died:
buried:

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   Howard Lee
      (Butch)
(children of James Howard Cave and Clara Belle Collins)

born: (May 30, 1940) in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
married: (a) Mary Bernice (Mary Bee) Teasley (June 18, 1960) in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
               (b) Nora Chrystelle (Christy) Baize Harris (April 2, 1981) in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
children: (a) John Michael @ and Michelle Kristen
                (b) none except stepdaughters from Christy's first marriage
died:
buried:

   Michael James
        (Mike)
born: (July 15, 1947) in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
married: Sharon Marie Tilotta (November 22, 1969) in Dallas, Dallas County, TX
children: Lisa Marie, Jonathan Michael, Julie Marie, Kristy Marie, Sharon Marie, Michael Samuel, Alexander Michael@, Noël Marie@, Emily Marie@, Joy Marie, Campbell Michael@ (@=Russian adoptees)
died:
buried:
note:
   Robert Lee
      (Robby)
(children of James Bobbie Cave and Betty Jean Duffau)

born: (February 26, 1954) in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
married: (a) Minda J. Hickman (December 15, 1973) in Bulverde, Comal County, TX
               (b) Marilyn A. Miller (August 18, 1985) in Bulverde, Comal County, TX
children: (a) none
                (b) Austin Duffau
died:
buried:

   Randall Wayne
       (Randy)
born: (November 19, 1955) is Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
married: Doris Ann Mayfield (May 3, 1986) in Bulverde, Comal County, TX
children: none
died:
buried:
   Melanie Gayle born: (August 15, 1962) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
married: (a) Charles David Wright (September 12, 1981) in Bulverde, Comal County, TX
                (b) John D. Risebeck (December 1, 1985) in Bexar County, TX
children: (a) Derrick
                (b) Bobby and Joseph
died:
buried:

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   Michelle Kristen
       (Kristen)
(children of Howard Lee Cave and Mary Bernice Teasley)

born: (November 7, 1966) in Kingsville, Kleberg County, TX
married: Kenneth Charles (KC) Tibbs, Jr. (July 13, 1991) in San Antonio, Bexar County, TX
children: Ashlee Nikole and Kaitlyn Tyler
died:
buried:

   John Michael
       (Michael)
born: (November 20, 1964) in Austin, Travis County, TX
married: Loretta (Lori) Isaacs (May 3, 2008) in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, TX
children:
died:
buried:
   Lisa Marie
(children of Michael James Cave and Sharon Marie Tilotta)

born: (September 16, 1970) in Dallas, Dallas County, TX
married: John Wesley Drake (October 9, 1999) in Houston, Harris County, TX
children: Austin, Joel Wesley, Emma Rose
died:
buried:

   Jonathan Michael born: (July 9, 1974) in Houston, Harris County, TX
married: Melanie Hope Morris (June 22, 2002) in Tyler, Smith County, TX
children:
died:
buried:
   Julie Marie born: (September 12, 1977) in Houston, Harris County, TX
married:
children:
died:
buried:
   Kristy Marie born: (April 30, 1979) in Houston, Harris County, TX
married:
children:
died:
buried:
   Sharon Marie
       (Sharonita)
born: (February 5, 1982) in Houston, Harris County, TX
married:
children:
died:
buried:
   Michael Samuel
       (Mikey)
born: (May 19, 1988) in Houston, Harris County, TX
married: no
children: no
died:
buried:
   Alexander Michael
       (Alex)
born: (July 13, 1988) in Russia
married:
children:
died:
buried:
   Noël Marie born: (December 25, 1989) in Russia
married:
children:
died:
buried:
   Emily Marie born: (January 18, 1991) in Russia
married:
children:
died:
buried:
   Joy Marie born: (February 14, 1991) in Houston, Harris County, TX
married:
children:
died:
buried:
   Campbell Michael born: (April 23, 1994) in Russia
married:
children:
died:
buried:

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