
Arthur R. Villemain, an early civic leader in Helotes, could make lifelong friends in minutes, said Billie Boenig Villemain, his wife of 38 years. It was with the support and help of those friends that Villemain faced his fight with pancreatic cancer.
"When he got sick we started saying the rosary every night at 8, and sometimes 15 to 20 people would be there," his wife said. "We have been extremely blessed. Art made friends so easy."
Villemain died Thursday, just six weeks after his diagnosis. He was 60. A funeral Mass will be at 10 a.m. today at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Helotes. Interment will follow at Zion Lutheran Cemetery in Helotes.
His wife said the coouple had been looking forward to more travel after handing over the family business, Employee Benefit Services, to their sons. Still, she said, her husband's life had been full, because he always took advantage of chances to be involved in the community.
A fifth-generation San Antonian born Oct. 6, 1943, Villemain lived in the area his entire life. He attended St. Gerard's Catholic School and stayed in town to attend St. Mary's University, where he became president of the local fraternity, Tau Delta Sigma.
He met his wife when they both worked at Valley Hi Mall.
With a knack for sales, Villemain entered the life insurance business in 1965 and quickly made a name for himself.
The family moved to the area of what is now Helotes. Villemain played an integral part in the process of incorporating the small town, working as treasurer on the board that pushed to become a city, his wife said.
Villemain continued working in community leadership roles and helped raise funds to bring the Northwest YMCA to Helotes. In the 1980s he founded Employee Benefit Services.
Arthur F. Villemain Jr. said that no matter how busy his father was with business, he always made time for his three children. He coached soccer, baseball and flag football. "He was absolutely a role model," Villemain Jr. said.
Once his children began to leave home, Villemain picked up woodworking, his wife said. His first project was a cradle he built for his dauhter's first child. He continued making furniure, and all his children have at least one piece in their homes.
A friend asked him after the cancer diagnosis if there was anything he regretted not having had the time to do, his wife said. "He said to him, 'No, there really isn't,'" she said. "Then the next day he came to me and said,'I want to build one more beautiful thing.' But he never had the time."
Villemain is survived by his wife; his father, Arthur Villemain and wife Mary; three children, Arthur "Bo" Vilemain Jr. and wife Jana, Pete villemain and wife Kathy, and Rhonda Villemain Suckow and husband Dusty; and 10 grandchildren.
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